The Day a Mountain Strengthened My Relationship

Everyone raves about the beauty of Switzerland, but few talk about the adrenaline rush.  Travelers save stories of epic mountain adventures for destinations like New Zealand, Patagonia, and the Himalayas.  For some reason, Switzerland is left out from a worthy conversation on alpine excitement and instead is known for its (equally worthy) scenic train rides, downhill skiing, and expensive pricing.

The mountains outside of Andermatt, Switzerland
The mountains outside of Andermatt, Switzerland

I’m hear to set the story straight: there is at least one remarkable activity in Switzerland that has nothing to do with trains, snow, or pricetags.

Setting off with half of my Competitours group, I arrived at the face of the Via Ferrata Diavolo, the “Devil’s Iron Way”.  A via ferrata is essentially a series of iron rungs installed on the side of a mountain — in this case, an Alp outside of Andermatt, Switzerland — so that you can mountaineer your way upward without needing extensive rock-climbing or belaying equipment. I’d completed a similar course in West Virginia, but I was truly looking forward to this one and another chance to climb a vertical rock face for great views.

via feratta

My husband, on the other hand, was terrified.

Mike’s not fond of heights to begin with and especially not comfortable with them when the only thing separating you from a free fall is two carabiners and the guidance and instruction of a man who completed the course only once before.  Still, Competitours is first and foremost a competition, and Mike was determined to give us a fair shot at winning by attempting the day’s challenge.

And so we set off.

Mike made a mad dash for things because “the sooner you finish, the sooner it’s over.”  I applauded him as he faced his fear, passing the 100-meter mark.  I followed quickly, enjoying every step and monkey climb I made.  Every once in awhile, I tempted fate by letting go with both hands and hanging from my carabiners or by trying to round a corner that looked impossible.

For roughly half the climb, this is how we scaled the course: him, frightened and trying to get it over with; me, enjoying every possible moment.

A Swiss Selfie!
A Swiss Selfie!

It was at the halfway point that all hell broke loose.

It started to rain and the mountainside was slippery.  We were hungry and thirsty, plus chilled to the bone from the sweat clinging to our boddies.  For an unhappy climber, it was enough to change the situation from miserable to unbearable.  After four years of marriage, I finally put two and two together: Mike didn’t just have a distaste for heights, he had an intense phobia.  And he was persevering through an incredibly traumatic experience for our benefit as a team.  As I was enjoying the scenery below, my husband was flat as a pancake against the rock wall, willing with all his might for this activity to be over.

via ferrata 1

From then on, we continued together, clipping carabiners in unison.  Sharing words of encouragement and, at times, physical help at unclipping and re-clipping to move upward, we kept going.

There was nowhere to go but up, and we were bound and determined to finish together.  Each horizontal traverse was the worst, since you had to focus more on technical movements and foot placement rather than climbing a pseudo-ladder.  You had to keep your eyes open and your mind focused without the distraction of quick movements.  Rounding a corner was even more extreme as it was nearly impossible to have both hands on iron rungs at the same time.

Eventually I could see the Swiss flag waving in the distance, the end of the course within sight.  My husband didn’t even acknowledge my announcement that we were nearly done.  For him, it wasn’t over until it was over.

Finally, we reached solid ground and the sense of security again.  We could sit, catch our breath, and think about what we just accomplished.  It wasn’t a pretty feat, but it was teamwork at its finest.  Here, on our annual “honeymoon”, we renewed our vows to each other without speaking a word.  Through thick and thin, we’d get each other through this and every other challenge life throws our way.

The end of our adventure.
The end of our adventure.

Sitting through the silence, the clouds broke and the view began to clear.  We could see the fairytale town of Andermatt below us, a pleasant reminder of where we started and why people choose this course.  After all, the scenery in Switzerland is phenomenal.

overlooking andermatt

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Want to learn more about the Via Ferrata?  Fellow Competitourista Laura of Far Flung Travels made an incredible video of what it’s like to climb the course.  Check it out on Youtube!

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Climbing a mountain on a via ferrata course in Switzerland was an experience I'll never forget and a test of perseverance. Learn more about this #sightDOING adventure at https://sightdoing.net/via-ferrata-switzerland/

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We completed the Via Ferrata Diavolo while on tour of Europe with Competitours, a fabulous group vacation of challenges, mystery destinations, and the chance to win prizes.  However, if you’re in Andermatt on your own and want to try the via ferrata, you can rent equipment for the half-day excursion and get information from Alpina Sport.

24 thoughts on “The Day a Mountain Strengthened My Relationship”

  1. GREAT testimony re yours and Mike’s relationship!! Thank you for your vulnerability/strength in sharing it. Blessin Tell Mike that ‘He is “The Man” ‘! Blessings on both of you… EdP
    PS Karen & I celebrated our 45th Anniversary Sat-23rd …which climaxed in a 6.0 Earthquake (epicenter 16 mi away) that rattled both our house and our nerves…

    1. @Shelly, We couldn’t think of a reason why not! We’d travel every year anyway, but try to time it for/near our anniversary and make sure there’s at least one “luxury” day mixed in. We rough it a lot, but for at least a night squeeze in a special dinner or nice hotel, etc.

  2. I want to be a sightDOER! I LOVE that concept!! How creative ๐Ÿ™‚ Though I have to hand it to you, doing all that in the rain is dedication. Great story.

    1. @Courtney, For most people, they could’ve just skipped the activity if it wasn’t there speed but we wanted to win. The rain was definitely a challenge, though.

  3. I’ve done a similar climb by myself. I can relate to Mike: it’s NOT over until it’s over. What an incredible view at the top though! And I don’t think I missed it in the article, but how did you get down? Did you guys have to scale the mountain on the rungs to get down too, or was there a transport or some sort?

    1. @Rob, You’re right – I completely skipped out on the trip down. We hiked down (on solid ground!) for about an hour back to town but if I remember correctly there was also a local bus that came by about once per hour if the schedule worked for you. We both love hiking, so it was an easy decision!

  4. Congratulations. And what an experience!! I have visited Switzerland but never heard of this kind of trips. Don’t know if I would do it though, looks a bit scary ๐Ÿ™‚

  5. I think I’d be right there with your husband! Stuff like rollercoasters and elevators don’t bother me, but hanging off the side of a mountain would definitely give me pause. Sometimes, the best part of traveling with my husband is the fact that we both challenge one another to try things that each of us wouldn’t otherwise seek out. We do a yearly anniversary trip–some big, some small–and it’s something we both look forward to! ๐Ÿ™‚

  6. That looks like fun! I didn’t even know yet that there are hiking paths like that. So just to get this straight, how does it work? You just show up there and then there will be a guide helping you or do you have to find your own guide? Well if you are not taking part in this Competition your guys where doing ๐Ÿ˜‰

    Ps. You found yourself a great man, I do not know many who would do that….wishing you just the best ^^

    1. @Sabine, There is a store in town that will provide instructions and equipment. You don’t necessarily need a guide, but I bet they could arrange one if you ask. (P.S. I know, I’m very lucky!)

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